Saturday, August 26, 2006

Statenistan



Wednesday, August 16, 2006

By Maureen Seaberg


I know what you've heard about Staten Island - I've heard it, too - from the L.A. publicist who told me "there's no there there" to the tourists from Madrid who saw me reading the papers on the ferry one day and declared me "como la esposa de Antonio Banderas" (like Melanie Griffith) - a real-life Working Girl. They never guessed I not only read them but help write them nor that a Staten Island woman may have once lived in Madrid and understood them perfectly.

There's a grain of truth to every stereotype you've heard - (insert stereotype here so I don't have to perpetuate them myself). But increasingly, there's a newer, more interesting Staten Island emerging as immigrants from every quarter find our green spaces, historic architecture and relatively good schools a draw. We've got mango lassi on Staten Island now and how are you going to keep them down at the Mall after they've tasted that?

I'm a native - God help me. But I'm not one of "those" people - and you know who I mean - the ones who call the Verrazano Bridge "the guinea gangplank" and who lament the fact that Staten Island hasn't remained farmland. I've never known a Staten Island without that amazing span completed by the genius of a Swedish immigrant named Othmar Amann. One of my parents' first dates was to cross it. I've never known Staten Island was NOT diverse, having grown up next to a Syrian-Nicaraguan family in Castleton Corners....

Not only does Staten Island have a bright future - it has a vibrant past. We have legacies that rival any of the other boroughs. It is shameful that more people, for example, know that Mafia Godfather Paul Castellano once lived in Dongan Hills and don't know that a good American-Italian, Leon Panetta, once lived on Ward Hill.

How many people know that Anna Leonowens landed here after learning from the King in the Court of Siam and ran a private school? Or that Mexican General Santa Ana holed up here after The Alamo? Other famous figures include revolutionaries Gorki, Kossuth and Garibaldi. This is where the Vanderbilts played during the Age of Innocence and where Bobby Darin and the family of Carolyn Bessette Kennedy summered in the 1950s.

Country legend Roy Clark told me he got his start playing aboard the Staten Island Ferry while his dad worked the old B & O Railroad. George Burns also practiced his vaudeville act aboard the floating orange boat with its captive audience.

Martin Sheen told me that he worked in the St. George Car Wash before theater legend Joe Papp (buried in Baron Hirsch Cemetery) gave him his break. Eric Bogosian, Meryl Streep, Sheen and others would return this borough to bury him. While living here, Sheen said his son, Emilio Estevez, was born on the living room floor of their apartment in the Ambassador building in St. George.

Chris Noth ("Mr. Big") said he lied about his age and went to work at the Willowbrook State School at 15. He still has nightmares about the horrible conditions there. Walter Cronkite said that he used to love to put his yacht in at Great Kills Harbor. Donald Trump did his own apprenticeship here in the borough, shadowing his dad, Fred Trump, around the Grymes Hill and New Dorp properties they once owned.

Dentist John Lavinio can tell you about the recent day King Abdullah of Saudi Arabia showed up for care at his South Shore office. Movie producer Julius Nasso talks about hosting everyone from Dodi Fayed, to Steven Seagal, Kelly LeBrock and Gianni Versace here. Mandolin Brothers on Forest Avenue has served two of four Beatles in their amazing music sales and repairs business. Dr. Gil Lederman treated not only George Harrison but Kennedy cousin Anthony Radziwill here and hosts parties that include Dan Meridor of the Israeli Knesset and Golda Maier's grandson.

Staten Island has an image problem - and like many cities around the nation, it actually needs a public relations specialist to get the word out about the many positives of life here - and the many interesting people who continue to pass through. It also needs many writers from many perspectives actively observing and documenting it, warts and all, so that progress may be achieved. Blog on!

Ms. Seaberg, of Ward Hill, has done work for the Daily News, the New York Times and ESPN the Magazine. She was a researcher and source for the upcoming JFK Jr. biography by C. David Heymann, "Triumph and Tragedy" due out July 2007 (Simon & Schuster). She is the former editor-in-chief of http://www.virtualindia.com/

13 comments:

  1. Wow, I didn't know all of that! It is websites like this one that will help
    let the world know that Staten Island is the best place to live in the whole world. We have extremely close proximity to Manhattan, big houses, green grass, wildlife, ocean, diversity, history...what more do we need?

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  2. Thank you for this blog, and particularly this entry. The stereotypes about Staten Island always embarrassed me, partly because I bought into them myself. Writing like this helps to dispel them and replace them with the more complex reality that is actually here.

    I just had mango lassi last night.

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  3. Thank you both for the comments - let's all get our heads out of the "red-headed stepchild" frame of mind!

    I also forgot to mention I did NOT vote in favor of secession - and part of what's wonderful about living here is it's NEW YORK CITY, BABY!

    Thanks to the Prodigal Borough team - may your smart, interesting website grow and grow, and may more savvy Brooklynites like yourselves move here and join the vanguard.

    Best,
    Maureen

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  4. What a great piece! Thanks so much for giving us a different perspective. I too am a native and pre-bridge. And I do fall into being very critical of what has happened to my borough due to greed, corruption and over development. But it's also the only place I want to live. I love the diversity. My best friends children are all successful and moved to Connecticut. She brags about how lovely it is there. The thought of all the sameness nauseates me. I often think that living in New Jersey (where all of my family fled) or Connecticut would be like being in prison - every day the same - every face the same. Who wants to look at faces that look like your own and homes that look like yours and talk to people with your opinions, ugh -- it depresses me to even write this.
    I was on the boardwalk on Friday night and saw a concert and fireworks but most important, I people-watched. I saw fathers interact with babies and boyfriends with girlfriends and old couples dancing and friends laughing. And everyone spoke Russian, Spanish, English, and other languages I couldn't identify. It was life and it was so interesting. Can you imagine the beach at Westport, Conn.?

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  5. But wait, there's more! Check out "Notable Residents" on Staten Island's Wikipedia page: Henry David Thoreau, Cornelius Vanderbilt, Madonna, and Ichabod Crane. We're in good company, it seems.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Staten_Island

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  6. I agree about the diversity issue.
    While there are more beautiful, places to live (Paris, London, Amsterdam) I love living here because it is such a mix of cultures. I feel the same way about CT as the blogger above. I grew up in a suburban city where there was only one black family and no asians. Looking back on that now I find it terribly creepy. Although if Staten Island was not part of NYC I might not like it as much. I longed to move to NYC for years but living in Manhattan can be stressful. Staten Island is the best of both worlds. That is why I love it. I'm glad that Staten Island has remained part of NYC. That is cool that Madonna lived here too. Did you know that the film School of Rock, with Jack Black, was filmed on Staten Island? They used the old theater on Van Duzer Street. I list my house with a few location scouts and I have been talking with them about bringing some more film and tv to Staten Island.

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  7. I put up a picture of a mural on a Staten Island building. I felt that this excellent post needed an image. I hope you don't mind Maureen. Cheers, CvB, Prodigal Borough

    ps: The brick wall from this picture was used in our headline. Can you find it?

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  8. Othmar Amman was a Swiss immigrant, not Swedish.

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  9. also re School of Rock -- Wagner College was the scene for all the fictional prep-school filming; the theater interiors were the St. George Theater, but the facade they used, tho, was the Paramount on Bay Street (a gorgeous theater that my SI-native husband tells me used to have everyone from the Ramones to the B-52s to another SI-native, David Johanson, playing their stage). Also, the apartment used as Jack Black's home in the movie is right on Bay Street, too. That movie is one, big Staten Island picture book. :)

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  10. What wonderful reading today.....in opening a Google mail account my path was a circuitous and serendipitous one that led to your blog on the wonders of SI.

    Left SI at age 10 or so after my mother died and have lived in California and Illinois in the
    intervening years. I've been back only twice to visit....but I've returned in my dreams very often....The twists and turns in the road lead us into life - I've often wondered about mine had I remained on what is home in my spirit....if not in fact.

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  11. Hi Maureen, I really enjoyed your blog. Can't wait to visit Staten Island again (possibly later this year), discover more Seaberg Family history, and to experience some Staten Island culture. Oooh, and a mango lassi.

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  12. Virginia Family -

    Thanks for checking in from the nation's capital and its beautiful suburbs.

    The good thing about the many Seabergs who got out of "Dodge" to serve in each branch of the US military is that, like the photo above says, "We are everywhere."

    How much better, more honest and bold this community would be if some of you moved back. In the meantime, mi casa es su casa y un abrazo muy fuerte. Skol!

    Love you all,
    Maureen of Statenistan, the last of your Mohicans here for now.

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  13. Are you people crazy? Keep SI a secret. Let the rest of NYC keep thier preconceived notions about SI. I'm a R.E. broker in Manhattan and can scarcely contain my laughter while customers tear out each others throats for a $4000 shoebox in the West Village. Nothing but praise and congrats for the recent transplants who thought for themselves and moved out to the island but I've lived on the Island forever have invested in St Goerge and I say LOCALS ONLY!!!! There has to be one sane and quiet corner in this city.

    PS I also have a really nice little 2 Family for sale at 57 Montgomery. Commercial lot , lots of potential. Asking 465 K but am ready to make a deal.

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